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Happy Father’s Day!

In honor of Fathers' Day and in loving memory of Jesus Prieto, this post will remain on top all day today. Please scroll down for newer posts.

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Today is my first Father's Day without my old man being with us and I was going to write about and share my last moments with Dad but I decided against it. I want to be selfish with those moments for just a while longer and prefer to offer you all the following:

Spend as much time with your dad as you can. Listen to his stories. Let him complain about anything he wants to complain about. Watch a ballgame with him. Let him beat you at dominoes. Revel in his boasting about his grandchildren. Bring him his favorite dessert and let him eat as much as he wants. Tell him about your day. Listen to him bitch and moan about the government. Take him fishing. See your own hands in his. Understand the lifelong sacrifices hidden in his eyes. Thank him for everything. Appreciate him in his entirety. Square away any arguments.

Tell your old man everything you ever wanted to tell him. Dad, I love you. Dad, thank you for your hard work and sacrifices. Dad, thank you for believing in me. Dad, thanks for setting me straight when I was so wrong. Dad, thank you for your support. Dad, thank you for teaching me how to ride a bike. I promise, Dad, to strive to be the person you worked so hard and so long to shape. Dad, you're my hero.

Happy Father's Day to all!

2 comments to Happy Father’s Day!

  • bronx52

    On the money Val!!! Gracias. XO, Zelde

  • At last year's Cuba Nostalgia, he told me, and I can't remember his exact words but it was this is the last one, I won't see you next year. At the time, I thought he meant it was too much for him, so he would be unable to join us. I realize now, how wise,and honest he was... he knew, and was saying goodbye...

    I am so proud, and thankful to have known him and loved him. What a gift!

    God Bless and keep always his eternal soul.